What is more effective: criticism or suggestion?
example: “you’ve never been someone to stick to your goals”
“show the world you CAN stick to your goals”
Imagine now if you changed how you spoke to your kids, always in possibility. You allow them to ALWAYS see the possibility of achieving something rather than “not” being something they are “supposed” to be.
How would the trajectory of your children, yourself or your friends change if you changed your words to encourage possibility?