The value of GOOD communication is tenfold. Prior to CSE and help from my tribe a convo would go like this:
me: man the house is a mess, its stressing me out. we need to get some shit done this weekend!
jawad: I know! but i gotta do so much shit over the weekend, not sure I can.
me: *grumble grumble*
me: I’ve been thinking about how great it feels when the house is clean or organized and how easy things become to manage when we are organized and the value of continuously putting in some effort daily and weekly to maintain a clean organized space so that we can enjoy it, relax in it and also take off some stress when we do come home, wouldn’t it be great if we made that kind of commitment to our space and environment; came up with a schedule and also focused on one room a weekend for about 2 hours to organize, maintain and do the necessary updates and once you do it once, it gets easier and easier every time and you can look back at it in pride and peace?
Jawad: couldn’t agree more!
me: cool, lets decide on two hours this weekend and prioritize beforehand what we can accomplish in 2 hours that would make the biggest most immediate impact.
me: lets talk tonight about it quickly?
A trail of answers in line with AGREEMENT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!